Friday, March 24, 2017

Let your wallflower speak ❀

In one of my previous post, I mentioned about how our past makes us who we are today.

By reflecting on our past, it will teach us a few lessons which makes us learn from it. Although the past experience of ours built us who we are today, stronger and wiser than before. We often say:" Let the bygones be bygones." but how often are we willing to let it go? 

We may convince ourself that the past is gone and it'll never be a part of us. The truth is, it was a part of us. From that past experience, it moulded our character for a better change. However, when one finds themselves in a current situation which is similar to their past, without realizing they build these walls because one maybe afraid that history might repeat again. 

you maybe thinking " Hey, wait a minute. I thought the past made us stronger so when the similar experience occur, we're much more conscious with our actions and decisions." With that thought, our walls will start building on its own. This makes a person very skeptical with their decisions now because of what has happened before. 

As our walls are build, it closes our mind and making us close minded. Everyday we're constantly learning and the world around us is evolving. If one has closes their mind, it is hard to learn and further improve themselves. With that being said, it will stop us from moving forward and changing. 

This is where our TRUST and INTUITION comes in. Often our brain is the one usually doing the talking but do we really take a moment to close our eyes and listen to our heart? Our brain is so extrovert that our heart is always ignored just like a wallflower 

Once we pay attention to that wallflower in us, the decisions you make will never fail you. In fact, it will only bring wonders. 

So whenever you're about to make a decision, close your eyes and for once, let your heart speak. 





Saturday, March 4, 2017

Changing for love?

They say "Don't change because of someone. Be who you are."

"Changing for someone isn't worth it."
"Don't lose your identity because of love"
"Stop pleasing them"
"Be yourself"
"Don't change for love"
"Stop impressing others"



We've heard of all these statements trying to advise us not to change who we are just to impress the ones we usually are interested in pleasing.

If one is willing to change who they are when they're not, it shows the effort and love they have towards their loved ones.
Some may criticise them for being stupid or dumb just to change for someone else but to those who appreciate it is the ones that recognise their change, they are the one who deserves such love.



In this very moment, it is up to the other on how they handle the changed that their loved one has made for them.
Eventually, a person could not continue an act for a long time. Their true colours would start showing and they would not be who their partner perceive them as who they were when they met at the very first beginning.

But if a person is still capable of loving them even though their partner has shown their true colours, this love will be full of surprises and it'll blossom because both end up loving each other even more because they know how far they'll go just to love one another.

Love is always unconditional and simple
Love deeply and fiercely with all your heart, mind and soul

Namaste