Love at first sight

How common is the phrase "love at first sight"?

As cliche as it is, but not everyone will experience meeting their spouse or partner with that instance spark or the strong force that brings them together.

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To those who really found their loved one at the very first moment they lay eyes on each other, you're very blessed and it must be one of the best things that ever happened in your life.

If you're still reading my post, you must be curious about why am I writing about this?

When a partner gets in a relationship, it's because both feel the attraction with one another.
You glanced through the crowd and stare from far, that one person in the crowd catches your eyes. You think to yourself, " He's charming, He's got that cute smile, Everything tick off from your dream guy list " ( Whatever you can think of ) and subconsciously your mind tells you "He has the potential." The guy probably has similar thoughts as you and either one of you walks up to another, assuming that's how a person gets into a relationship.

As time passes by, you see your partner's characteristics, true colours, their vulnerability and habits. Once you've seen their flaws, some of you will accept and still love who they are despite your high expectations of them.

Unfortunately in today's society, many have lost the sparks they once felt towards their partner and this is where the saying comes in..

What I feel about why marriages may fail or friendships/relationships end quickly, the bonds between children or friends are no longer strong brings it down to the core issue of FEELING.

Why does it have to do with feelings?
When you meet a person you're attracted to, you've butterflies in your tummy and your heartbeat races. That's a feeling
You see someone who has the potential to be your friend whether a friend that you could count on and will always be there to listen to your problems 24/7. That too is a feeling.

But we know feelings doesn't last long just like how nothing last forever. This is why many of us tend to lose the good feeling of a person once we've known them for a long time and it may spoil the relationship we feel towards another.

Before you make any big decisions to cut connections with the people you once felt the spark with,  take the time to truly listen to your heart and picture the memories both of you made.

If you ever feel like you're losing your feelings towards your loved ones, question and ask yourself;
What made you love the person at the very first moment?
How did the person capture your attention in the very first place?

Rekindle the spark and feel it once more again <3 Appreciate and be thankful that they're a part of your life.

Sometimes people need to be reminded of their presence and how they bring joy in our world. By just saying " Thank you for bringing happiness and laughter into my life" or giving them a hug could brighten up their day or make them feel very special.

The world needs our love, kindness and positivity.